Dear Reader,
From the desktop of CA Nitin Pathak:
| PARTICULARS | PAGE.NO. |
| From the desktop of CA Nitin Pathak , Ahmedabad | 3-6 |
| A: CA KAPIL GOEL : INCOME TAX | |
| 1.On section 40(a)(ia) : TDS disallowance | 7-13 |
| 2.On section 14A: Expense disallowance tax exempt income | 15-19 |
| 3.On classification of share transaction: business income v/s capital gains | 20-37 |
| 4.Property transaction: capital gains v/s business income | 38-38 |
| 5. Delhi High court on importance of substance of income for purposes of set off of losses | 39-40 |
| B:INTELLECTUAL PROPERTY RIGHTS BY ROHAN THAKKAR | 41-50 |
| C: "BEYOND STRESS MANAGEMENT" BY PRADIP MUKHERJI | 51-53 |
Self control is the concept, I have used in my write up, with a view to live life easily & effortlessly in the area of money, relationship, health & for joy & peace with no reason. If you like it, accept it, if forwarded re-read it, otherwise throw it.
Enthusiasm is an engine which drive every one in the pursuit of a goal with little avail, as the self control is missing. Their decision is not focused & action are in disarray.
This reminds me of a sharing from a book:
An author was angry on a janitor because of misconception that he is making intentionally electricity off. One day when he was working on Sunday and electricity went off. He immediately rush to the janitor & fired with all the anger.
But the janitor calmly reply "why you –all's just a little bit excited this morning, isn't you?"
This calm reply ,puts the author in awkward position in spite of, so much knowledgeable than janitor, because of self control of a janitor. The author gone back to his office with lots of frustration. He realise that janitor was not responsible for the electricity failure, as he was taking all corrective action which he can take . The author realise his mistake for being angry with no truth behind it , he decided to ask for the forgiveness from a janitor.
When the author went back this time very slowly to janitor. The janitor seeing author coming calmly & kindly told an author "What do you wish this time"
The author asked for the apology for the wrong done by him.
The janitor replied coolly as under: "For the love of lord, you do not have to apologize . Nobody heard you except these four walls, you & me. I am not going to tell it & I know you are not going to tell it, so just forget it."
Few take away of the sharing:
1. No amount of education can bring humility until you implant it.
2. The reading of scripture and good book many a time does not work.
3. The forgiveness is the virtue in janitor was auspiciously present. The wisdom was flowing in all words, acts & deed of a janitor.
4. The author took it as a lesson in life to forgive and implant virtue of a janitor.
5. This virtue change the paradigm shift author's life, his write up & delivery. The author becomes very effective from that time onwards. Forgiveness is a key word.
NO ONE CAN CONTROL OTHERS UNLESS HE FIRST CONTROLS HIMSELF.
The second sharing from a book:
In a stall of a mall there was huge crowd for purchase of garments. The non empathetic woman around late forties rushes by side lining others and asking for a question when sales woman was making presentation. She coolly & smiling replied " Ms I will come back to you very shortly ".
That Ms purchased two garment because of the praise she got.
Take away of the sharing:
1. Sales women had not loose self control though Ms Buyer interrupted in her presentation.
2. She poised and responded nicely that affect Ms Buyer to buy the garments.
3. Good words came from sales women for her commitment to do a business with lot of honour & dignity of herself & her patronage.
A GOOD HEARTY LAUGH IS WORTH TEN THOUSAND "GROANS" AND A MILLON "SIGHS" IN ANY MARKET ON EARTH.
MEN WHO CONTROL THEMSELVES USUALLY BOSS OF THE JOB, NO MATTER WHAT IT MAY BE.
THE MAN WHO ACTUALLY KNOWS JUST WHAT HE WANTS IN LIFE HAS ALREADY GONE A LONG WAY TOWARDS ATTAINING IT.
The third sharing of an incident:
An author was visiting a large departmental store in the Chicago, where there is a long queue of women complaining about garments. The complainants were angry, vociferous, unreasonable & passing ugly remarks. On the desk young lady was handling complain with huge smile on her face. She was assisted by assistant from the back giving notation of what is said minus the "vitriolic colouring" and the anger. When author inquired it came to know that young lady was "stone deaf". When inquired from the departmental manager that the position of complain assistant was very important face of the store. No one could handle the post until he got the answer of a "deaf young lady".
Take away from the third incident:
1. The poise when irritated because of intolerance, jealousy, envy of other person/ situation/circumstances. Poise as she was answering minus all emotion.
2. Choose to have a set of "Mental Ear Muffs" as in the case of " Stone deaf young lady".
3. Life is too short and there is too much constructive work to be done to justify us in " striking back" at everyone who says that which we do not wish to hear.
4. Example of a professional advocate of a self control is well known to us, as advocate knows & uses a clever trick, used on belligerent witness to make him lose self control through simple but annoying question and committing him to say what he want to say. Many such examples are present in our day to day affairs.{ How you can make other's to loose their self control to your advantage/ Where you are loose your self control to the advantage of others}
The study of a great achievers shows that they are great composures of themselves in the midst of anarchy.
IT IS A WELL KNOWN FACT THAT NO MEN EVER REACHED A HIGH STATION IN LIFE WITHOUT OPPOSITION OF A VIOLENT NATURE FROM JEALEOUS AND ENVIOUS ENEMIES.
YOU HAVE A TREMENDOUS ADVANTAGE OVER THE MEN WHO DOES YOU AN INJURY: YOU HAVE IT WITHIN YOUR POWER TO FORGIVE HIM, WHILE HE HAS NO SUCH ADVANTAGE OVER YOU.
Thus importance of self control is shared, with three sharing & certain couplets.
Further there is a seminar on releasing through emotional releasing technique by Pradip Mukherji on 20th-21st April,13 @ Hotel pride, the details of which is available on page-5 of E-News letter, this will help you in mastering self control.
I end up with following:
IF YOU ARE SUCCESSFUL REMEMBER THAT SOMEWHERE, SOMETIME, SOMEONE GAVE YOU A LIFT OR AN IDEA THAT STARTED YOU IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION.
REMEMBER ALSO THAT YOU ARE INDEBTED TO LIFE UNTIL PERSON, JUST SOME LESS FORTUNATE PERSON, JUST AS YOU WERE HELPED.
Make a self control as a strategy to deal with vagaries of life by forgiving, sharing , let go of greed, fear, intolerance, jealousy & wanting approval from others.
With warm regards,
CA Nitin Pathak
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